Question: Do I need to be like the Proverbs 31 woman?   Short Answer:  Only in that she fears the Lord   What the Bible Says Proverbs 31:9-31 shows us a model of virtuous perfection. The woman in these verses is praised by her husband and blessed by her children. She cares for her household and the needy. She’s wise in words and in business. Scripture says that she surpasses all the other noble women. But when we focus on what she is, desiring to be her, we miss the heart of the passage and veer into the lane of sinful comparison ( Galatians 6:4 ). Every good work and noble trait is futile without the fear of the Lord because, without that, we can only serve ourselves. The most significant part of the passage is this: “a woman who fears the Lord.” That’s it. The Proverbs woman produced good fruit and did good works because she feared the Lord, not the other way around. Her fear of the Lord isn’t an extra detail to be spoken of as if it also describes her l...